I came across a typed note from my father that was written with no date (!) but it was in the months preceding his ultimate passing. Here is what it said: " Your good wishes may not have seemed like a big deal to you but they were to me " Dear ones: I came very close to being gone from you and all that we have shared would only be a memory now. Two firemen, minding their own busness shopping for supplies for their crew at HyVee, changed that outcome. They, along with Methodist Hospital, doctors, nurses and other staff kept me in life so that I can be with you today. Things will never be the same. That experience has for me changed the nature of my relationships. My realization is that I may never havev gotten the chance to express how I feel about you so I am going to do that now. I love you, I appreciate you and I am grateful for your presence in my life. Thank you for caring about me and for your wishes for a speedy recovery and a ...